How to Love Life

Life is short, and we all need to step back and realize how great it really can be.


Let me give you some awesome tips to love your life :-

1. Be optimistic. Think of life in the best way possible, look at the glass as half full, and find the better side of every situation. You would be amazed at how much more there is to life than the negative.
2. Live every moment to the fullest. Don't waste a single second being sad, bored, orlonely. Get out there and dance, and sing as if no one was around. You never know how much longer you have to do so.
3. Be selfless. Give more than you receive, and share with others. Do less for yourself, and more for the people around you. Also when you do the right thing you get a fantastic feeling inside.
4. Laugh often. This is possibly the most important point in this how-to guide. Laughter is the number one most important thing in life. Laugh much, and smile often.
5. Live in the present. Forget about the past, as there is nothing you can do about it. Don't worry about the future, as what is to come is to come, and if you forget to live in the moment, you would be surprised at how quickly time can slip. Every moment is an opportunity to feel great. Go play with a sibling, a child, or a friend.
6. Plan Ahead. on the flip side, if you make goals and accomplish them, if you take good care of yourself, if you set aside money for a rainy day, you will have a happier, fuller future and no regrets to bother you.
7. Be yourself. Live up to your own standards, not anyone else's. Who cares what others think about you? Who cares if you can't sing, can't dance, or if your clothes don't match. Do what you want to do, and be who you want to be.

I am sure following all the above will actually make you realize the importance of your life and I am pretty sure you will start loving it that moment on.

Loads of Love

SHRUTI SINGH

Examination Fever

Even the saints says ‘’God do not put me to test’’. A test saps the energies of a person, generates mental agony and makes him incapable of thinking correctly. Examinees shudder at the thought of the examination and fear of failure makes them unhappy. Evil dreams haunt the students and the dose of admonition given regularly disturbs them.

Before the examination, the students suspend pleasure-giving activities. They do not go to the playground; cancel their picnic and forget about cinemas. They are busy with their books; go on reading while sipping a cup of tea; go on revising while lying in bed. They discuss questions; talk about books and cram about answers. Some perch on the trees; other sit in the retired corner and still others stick themselves with chairs.


The examination fever touches the highest point on the night before the examination. One gets disturbed sleep.Students get up early in the morning and even the atheists pray. In front of the examination hall one feels that everything was evaporated from his brain. A friend says ‘’this question is sure to be set’’. Another says "Have you prepared these questions?’’ the student feels disturbed and turns the pages of notes of books hastily and rolls his eyes over the answer.

As soon as he takes his seat in the examination hall, he prays to God or revises the questions. If the question paper is difficult, glasses of water are ordered. The candidate perspires. An easy question paper may take the choice of questions difficult. As he sets down to writing, he may feel that much has evaporated from his brain.


Even after the examination the fever still haunts the student. He tells his friend ‘’I was a bit confused’’ or ‘’I could not do justice to questions’’. He counts his marks daily and thinks that he would get a second class. He remains in this type of suspense when he Judgment Day comes. He tries to find his roll number in the newspaper. This moment is very troublesome because failure would invite taunting remarks of the friends, neighbors and the relatives. Even if he gets through, he would be heard saying ‘’there is something wrong with the examiner. Perhaps any answer sheets are replaced.’’ Examination fever cannot be measured.

Which is better Television or the Books ?

TV brings you the news and other updates faster than books.You can know all the happenings a few mins by sitting before the TV.But there is always some pleasure in reading books.TV can be a good stressbuster after hrs of study but there is only a thin line of distinction b/wn a stressbuster and addiction.


In recent times,you have to very careful about the selection of channels in TV.But books give a different feel about the story.You can enjoy a particular language only by reading.Even in this internet era,the best friend to share the morning coffee is the newspaper and nobody can beat it.

My vote would be for the books.

Why india can't be corrupt free?

As long as India has majority of poor people and they keep on blaming their fate rather than demanding justice from the system.


As long as the educated people do not join rank with the rich and corrupt people and instead try to help the poor and downtrodden people like some of the prominent people did it across the world - Martin Luther King, Lal Bahadur Shastri, Mother Teresa, Nelson Mandela, Munshi Prem Chand, Amrita Pritam, Raj Kappor, Khushwant Singh to name a few,

It is embedded in their psyche from an early age, and for many many centuries.
The British could'nt control it and Ghandi could'nt stop it.
But It can be reduced over time by determination.
You need a very strong democratic government and some very serious penalties for corruption by senior officials and politicians its more serious than the small fry.
Just look what happens in China, death penalty.
Ok china is still corrupt, bribery is rife but not half as bad as it would have been.

ROLE OF MEDIA IN TODAY'S SOCIETY

In today’s world, media has made a very special place for itself in our lives. If I say that today, media has become as important as food and clothing, then I don t think so that I am over exaggerating anything. There is no denial that media is playing a very significant role in making the world smaller. Through various mediums of media whether it is radio, television, newspaper or internet, we are able to connect with large number of people around us. Especially internet has truly become the need of every individual both for our work and to connect with our friends and well wishers. Facebook, Orkut and Twitter have occupied such special place in our lives that if we are not a part of it, then there is something really important that we are missing.

Besides connecting with our friends, media also informs us about the world happenings. In one line I can say that media is like a mirror of the society which reflect each and everything about the society to us. Media people from television and print takes the risk of their lives to inform us about important news. To some extent I can compare these brave journalists with our soldiers who do not bother about their lives and takes the responsibility to aware the general masses about the truth. I think it is almost impossible to imagine a life without media.

But one also can not overlook this fact that slowly commercialization is also coming in media. Media has a huge responsibility of conveying the truth and relevant information to the common man. But somewhere this seems to be taking a back seat for media people as they are focusing more on commercialization. Now a days, hot news which can help in increasing the TRP rates of the channel becomes the priority for them. But there are still some ethical people in media who are struggling to maintain the real purpose of it.

If we just look around then we would find that there is no aspect of our life which is not touched and affected by media. Be it our work, relationships, education or entertainment, media is seen everywhere. And there is no denial that we can not live without media.

Music

Now this is one topic i can't stop talking about. MUSIC.

No i am not the kind of person who will say "Music is Life" (LAME!).
But i really enjoy it and its an integral part of my life certainly when its there when no one else is. It never allows you to be alone. You can access it anywhere and anytime you want.  You can sing,  You can hear and you can compose. Thousand of such things can be done with music. Its a Forever companion to you.

Friends come and go,  Life keeps shifting gears, family sometimes support sometimes don't but Music is one such thing that will be yours forever and ever.

My time with music is basically when i am traveling or late nights (when you actually don't want to sleep and have nothing else to do). It keeps me away from all my miseries and tensions for that limited period i am with it. I listen to Music according to my mood and the songs that i listen can actually tell my state of mind.

So I would end up here saying that

Music enters your body but remains in your soul forever

Loads of Love
Shruti Singh

Confusion

I have given it a deep thought and realized that the word Confusion cannot be defined. Its like trance music  (it takes you somewhere else in entirely different world altogether). What made me write about this topic is the reason that i am being constantly subjected to this Confusion state for a long long time.

There are certain times in life when you absolutely don't know what to do next and how to go about a certain problem. You ask friends, family any XYZ on planet for help. Yes! You do get lots of helpful advices (some lame) but at the end decision stands on you that whether you want to induce those advices or not.

In my case , NAAAH! I can't. 

I listen to everyone but i only do what i want to and at the moment that would be NOTHING. LOL!

Its just not my mechanism to do what i am told to. I just like to go my way even if i know i am wrong.

I am in kind of love with confusion. It keeps me busy all day wondering what to do and what not to do.

See i am being Optimistic here :-)

Oh Its Late  Catch you later with more of Confusion facts.

Tadaaaaaa

Shruti Singh

Power Cuts

Delhi is famous for its prehistoric monuments, Parliament, Metro , Fraud Commonwealth Games etc etc.
I really love this city, obviously its my home but c'mon that is so Lame. I have my own reasons to love it and please don't even expect i am writing it here on the web  ;-)

Now what i really hate about this city ( Focus on this part) is the "POWER CUTS".
Oh c'mon this a metro city and the Capital of India,  have some standards man. I mean look at all the power cuts around the city. Its like for every 1 hour of electricity you get government taxing you by cutting your electricity for next 4 hours (Aren't we already paying enough?). You can't access  internet, No televisions, No air conditions....These things have more importance in my life than Oxygen ( We already have abundance of it  so i can take the risk of taking it for granted, LOL).

I thought of being an optimistic and avoiding this topic but hey ! i just can't stand this heat, either get me back the winters or give me some electricity to cool upon.

Wish Our beloved (joke) Chief Minister Reads this.
Shruti Singh

Introduction To Me

Well when you google the name SHRUTI, you may come across thousand of web pages referring to different Shruti's all round the globe.But i guess somehow you've managed to reach here at this tiny blog  of mine.
Well now when you have actually reached here, I would like to introduce myself ( Don't expect any Resume or formal stuff here).

I am not complicated just hard to understand and only if you really have some brain you might figure me out.
I live different lives, To some i come across as a "Girl Next Door", to some i come across as "Independent", Some even consider me "The Best Thing" they have come across. But it all means nothing to me.
I have a simple approach in life and i make sure i live upto it.

Ohkey  ! I am bored now.....More of me later ( Do Check Back Later).

Ciao
Shruti Singh.